True Colors Coming Out!!!

Well, it didn't take long for some people's true colors to come out! For months all some of my friends and I have heard is how our 2 stalkers are such good Christian people, that NEVER bother anyone.

This past week, that has been proved to be a flat out blatant lie. One of our dearest friends has started receiving not only threats of physical violence, but also death threats by phone. The owner of our forum and blog, along with the rest of us, have decided to just keep the blog closed. The forum will stay open, however.

It takes some very sick minds to call people and threaten to even remove their toenails and send them to someone. Whoever has been making these calls to our friend, has not learned yet that none of us are afraid of them or their threats in the slightest. There is nothing that they can actually do to hurt us and the rants and outbursts that they have been posting sound like they are coming from the mind of a spoiled and demented child.

I have posted my home phone number for them and told them to feel free to call me, however I guess that they cannot afford to pay the long distance charges that they would incur calling Canada from Alabama.

Our friend has taken the appropriate measures to report the calls to her home with local authorities. It's just a matter of time before they really slip up and then the Madison County Sheriff's Dept will be dealing with them.

We have decided that we will just keep our email chain going. Since they cannot access our email accounts, they will not know what is being done with regard to their idiocy.

Whoever is stupid enough to be doing this needs to either wake-up, sober up or both before they really land in serious trouble with the law that one of their lies will not get them out of!

Some people can be SO stupid...........

I received an email from a friend yesterday, that at first made me mad. Then, after having time to think about it, I decided that there was no reason for me to be mad because I had done nothing wrong. It was the person that used my name falsely that had done wrong, and I have yet to figure out what they think that they will gain by it.

The email that I received, pointed me to a blog that is run by a woman that can never quite get it right. It would appear that she types before using her brain to find out the truth of the matter. Here's a tip....engage brain before opening mouth or using your fingers to type.

I have been accused of sending messages to this woman, in an effort to get her to print lies about a person that I do not even know. The only time that I have EVER contacted this woman, was to demand that she remove this slanderous post about me. The ONLY way that I had to contact her, was by making a comment to her original post on the said blog.

I didn't even know what she was talking about, until I did a little research. It seems that some woman is suing a newspaper or someone, over slanderous and defaming posts that were made against her on an open forum. I have no idea as to what got this all started, because I never read any of the posts, and haven't until this day. I have no desire to read them.

According to what this woman posted on her blog, I am supposed to have some sort of 1st hand knowledge about this case......even down to me supposedly talking to the judge handling the case and them giving me private info about the situation. I'm still trying to figure out how I could have talked to the judge handling this, if there even is one. I would have to know which judge drew the case, and I have no idea as to who that judge might be. I would have had to be in a situation where I was having a conversation with the judge for this subject to even come up. I would also have to be in Alabama to talk to any judge that might be involved in this case. I'm not in Alabama and my phone records will clearly show that I haven't called any of the judge's offices. I haven't had a conversation with a judge from North Alabama since last year and that conversation certainly did not revolve around any of the cases that they were handling. Considering the fact that I used to work for a criminal attorney that had been a DA at one time, I know that you NEVER discuss any case with a judge privately.....especially an on-going case. You might discuss the weather, your children, your vacation, etc....but NEVER a case that they are sitting on.

I'm not sure just what this woman is trying to do by placing this false information about me on her blog. However, I can assure her that she is not causing any problems for me, personally or legally. I can however assure her that she has overstepped her bounds and done something that could have a lasting affect on her life. She had better be prepared to show some proof, because if the info that she posted gets back to certain people in Madison County, Alabama, she is going to have some real explaining to do.

People that never give up..........

Why is it that no matter how many times you may tell someone to stay away from you and to leave you alone, that some people just will not listen?

No matter how many times that we tell Ms. A to stay away from our blog and no matter how many times that our administrator puts the blog to private, she just will not give up. As soon as the blog is open to the public again, there she is continuing with her stalking, tauntings and lies. Of course, we all get tired of reading her dribble, so the administrator starts deleting her posts. Still, she will just not give up.

This person must really have a much sadder life than any of us realize. She is continually posting about how many friends that she has, how popular she is, what a wonderful life she has and on and on. Well, how could she possibly have such a wonderful life, if she spends all of her time stalking and harassing us? Wouldn't she be out spending time with all of her friends that love her so very much, instead of just sitting behind a keyboard all day hunting people down that do not like her or want anything to do with her. We know that this is how she spends all of her time, because our administrator has a way of checking to see who has been reading the blog, posting on the blog and even trying to get into it when it is set to private. One day alone, this past weekend, Ms. A tried to access the blog OVER 1,000 times! Call it what you will, but that alone shows just how obsessed she is with all of us.

Ms. A really needs to get help with her problems. She has admitted to being a patient at the mental health center and I know that they could help her, if she would just admit her problem to them.

Well, it had to happen

Well, things got so bad at our usual forum and blog, that the owner had to set it back to private. Anyone that she did not know, was deleted from the member list. The only way that anyone can become a member now, is if they are known by one of us, or all of us. No one that just lurks, but does not post......no harassing comments left to us on the blog.

I hate that it had to come to this, but when people are told over and over that they are not wanted there, but refuse to go away, you have no choice, but to make things where they cannot access anything. From this point forward, our forum and blog will continue to be private/members only. It will never be set where outsiders can come back to stalk and harass us.

We are all so very thankful for this! Of course, I'm sure that it will be just a matter of time, before our stalkers/bullies will try to find a way around this, or try to find another place that we post, where they can keep up with us and harass us even more.

When does it stop?

When you have someone that is stalking and harassing you and your friends, do you ever wonder when it will stop?

If they are posting on a forum and you respond to them, they start to call you names and make up lies about you. If you ignore them.....well, they still do the same thing. It seems that no matter what you do, they refuse to leave you alone.

One of the ladies on our forum, owns her own business. It is a family business, where both she and her husband work, along with their son-in-law. This ladies' husband will tell you up front that his wife owns the business and that he just works for her. Our cyber bully. Ms. A, has decided that the business is owned by the husband and regardless to how many times you tell her to the contrary, she will swear that she has seen the business license and that we are all lying, because she knows for a fact that the husband owns the company.

It amazes me that this person refuses to leave us alone. Even though we know that she does not have any money, and that she does not own anything of value, we have threatened to file law suits against her for the stalking and harassment. A couple of us have even talked with lawyers, who assure us that if a lawsuit is indeed filed, we may not be able to collect a monetary award, we can at least get a court order that will restrain her from having any contact with us in any manner. After having several conversations regarding this situation, we have come to the conclusion that it would be worth it, just to stop her from ever coming to a place where we all hang out.

What do you think????????

Chapter 2 - Cyber Bullies

Here is Chapter 2.

After our friend setting up a new site for us, once again Ms. A hunted the web until she found us. She has constantly stalked and harassed us on the new forum and blog. We have been called liars, stalkers, and the funniest one of all, is that she likes to call US the bullies.

Ms. A does not work. She is in her late 20's and claims that she is disabled and therefore unable to work. She spends her time posting exceptionally nasty things, that are unfit for the eyes to see. The owner of the forum and blog, has set the site to private, where you must be a member to read or post anything. It has been left this way for weeks at a time. Just as soon as the site is opened back up to the public, Ms. A is there spouting off her filth once again. She constantly watches the site, just waiting for it to be set to public again, so that she can strike.

We have tried explaining to her over and over again that it is HER coming to where we post. It is HER hunting us down. BUT, in her small mind, WE are the ones stalking and harassing her.

Ms. A has a new friend, Ms. B. Ms. B has now started to post on the blog, acting like an uninterested party, defending Ms. A. Of course, since the owner of the site can track IP's, we know who is posting these things. Once again, it is pure trash and lies.

The owner of our site is married to a police officer. According to Ms. B, this officer is being investigated for interaction with a prostitute. However, no one, not even the officer knows anything about this. He is still working every day. He has not been put on any type of leave, which happens when they are being investigated for inappropriate actions.

According to Ms. B, I am a drug addict. My doctors in Canada have caught on to me trying to get drugs, so now I have to go to a doctor in Alabama to get my drugs. I have ONE doctor in Canada. He is the only one that writes my prescriptions and knows exactly what meds I am taking and why. I use one pharmacy. My pharmacist knows exactly what I take. They know that I never call them up and say, oh I lost my meds and need a new RX for some more. In over 5 years, I have NEVER had to have any medication refilled, until the time that it is due. I'm also curious as to how I am using a doctor in Huntsville, Alabama to get drugs, when I am in Canada??? I am in Alabama in the spring and in the winter to spend time with my children and grandchildren. However, the only time that I have had to see a doctor there, is when I've become ill, or had an accident which required medical attention.

These are only 2 instances of posts made my Ms. B. She has had such stories to tell about each of us that post on the site.

The funny thing is, that we have found out that Ms. B has quite a past. She has gone so far as to sue one of the governors of the State of Alabama. Her husband has been in jail for shooting up a car, or something to that affect. None of her children have graduated from high school.....they are all drop-outs. One of her daughters married at a very young age, because she was pregnant. Everyone that knows Ms. B and her family, have told us that they have some mental problems. Ms. B has run for several political offices in her area.......but never even come close to being elected. It seems that she will do most anything to get attention.

If anyone out there is having the same problems as we are....please know that you are not alone. Unfortunately, there are some very sick people in this world. We have all come to the conclusion that these people become cyber bullies, because their lives are lacking something very important. They are doing this to people, simply to get attention.......even it if is negative attention. They have nothing in their lives to be proud of and are jealous of those of us that are lucky enough to have wonderful families and happy lives. We can only hope that someday, something will happen to give them a true purpose and that when this happens, they will cease to become cyber bullies.

Being stalked by a cyber bully

Have you ever been stalked and harassed by a cyber bully? What makes someone want to do something like this? Do they have so little attention in their "real" lives, that they have to find someone in the cyber world to try to obtain attention from?

Some of my friends and I are being stalked and harassed by not 1, but 2 of these cyber bullies. We will call the original stalker Ms. A and her friend that has joined in, Ms. B.

My friends and I are a group of people that all have homes and families. We have a special site that was set up by one of the members of our group, where we can go to post and just have fun. We all love to joke around, laugh and just enjoy life. At no time, have any of us hunted anyone down to harass. We just like to be left alone.

A little over 2 years ago, we met Ms. A, on a forum that was set up for Huntsville, Alabama. Ms. B also posted there, but on the forum for a different city.

When I first found this Huntsville forum, I lurked for a while to see what types of subjects were being discussed. I saw and read a thread started by Ms. A, in which she was laying out some of her supposed health issues. I noticed that almost every reply was negative. This made me feel sorry for this woman. I didn't understand why people would be so negative with regard to someone being ill. I finally posted for the 1st time, telling Ms. A that I understood what she was talking about, as one of my best friends also suffered from one of the illnesses that she had described. To my horror and amazement, instead of simply saying something like "Thank you for understanding", this woman went off on me. She accused me of laughing at her, making fun of her and basically calling her a liar! Right then and there, I came to understand why people were responding to her like they were. This woman was saying anything and everything that was rude and uncalled for, just to get attention. She even went so far as to post the personal and private info on one of the women, that became my friend. Ms. A had this woman's name, address and phone number posted on a public forum for anyone to read. Of course, as she does with everything else, she has denied being the person that did this, even though we all read her post.

Things became so bad with Ms. A, that someone offered to set up a private forum, where we could post and not have to be worried about Ms. A being allowed on the site. This worked well for a time, and then some things came up that several of us did not agree with, so we decided to leave the new forum, of our own accord. We were not asked to leave or banned, as Ms. A has proclaimed. We just thought that it would be better for us to find another place to post.

One of the ladies in our "friendship circle" was nice enough to take the time and effort to set up a new site for us. This is a forum where no posts are deleted for any reason, anyone is welcomed to sign up for the forum, and we can all just post and have fun with each other.

Can you guess what happened to us????? Well, stay tuned for part 2 and I'll tell you all what has been going on with our forum lately.

See you soon.............Deb